WAITING is painful. FORGETTING is painful. But do you know what's worse? -- IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHICH TO DO.
You know what pain could be and how it may affect you and your life. How about the cliche, 'prevention is better than cure'?
How about when it's too late to prevent it?
You get advices like..
move on!
go on with your life.
he's just another random guy, you can get another one!
That guy isn't worth it.
He's easy, c'mon!
That's ok, cheer up!
You can do it!
Don't they just realize how frustrating for you to know that something hard for you wouldn't be for them? And, things they say make you feel you're the weakest link? Or, they aren't just in the right position to sought advices to?
Letter C.
Things are easier said than done.
(i won't argue on the last statement)
in cases of such (when you don't know if you'll wait or forget), you tend failing to define the meaning of PRIORITIZE; you forget about your mind, your heart, and sometimes, yourself; you cling into your ego more often than not; worse, you decide out of circumstances which you have failed to see that are apparent wouldn't work!
You suddenly are DUMB when something's wrong with your emotions, and it just oftentimes would ruin you as a person.
You're stock in despair and continously torturing yourself with a useless question, 'have i taken the right choice?'
then, when you realize it could be wrong (but you weren't sure), you change it! Worse comes to worst, you take it as a CYCLE!
So, in short, you're missing to place the DOT!
ILLOGICAL.
OUT OF CONTROL.
TERRIFYING.
REDICULOUS.
But, you fail to see 'em!
What should you do that you've failed to do in the first place?
1. UNDERSTAND YOURSELF. Reflect. Ask yourself all the why's you've got. Remember that YOU understand yourself more than any one else.
2. WEIGH. Give every small detail a shot. Write notes as what you have already decided what would be EFFECTIVE for you, and what would be NOT.
3. DECIDE AND STICK TO IT. Don't let anyone decide for you! More than anyone, YOU ARE THE MOST RESPONSIBLE PERSON FOR YOURSELF. But never depend solely on your mind, your heart or your ego -- they work best as a team, believe me. You have number 2 as a basis.
Once you have taken the decision, forget all the other choices forever. Make yourself believe that what you have would work the BEST. Do not change just that, or else you'll be back to zero.
4. COMMUNICATE THE PAIN. Cry. Find a shoulder to lean on, but don't make yourself too comfortable to the extent of being dependent to that shoulder. Say the words you've been wanted to tell that person who caused you pain. Don't restrict your capability to be HEARD and FELT!
5. GIVE IT TIME. 'time heals all wounds', it may be the least effective cliche, BUT IT WOULD STILL WORK ANYWAY. Patience would lead you to something you just didn't expect and imagine.
6. STAND FOR IT. Without this, nothing makes sense.
7. SPREAD. If it's your turn to give an advice to someone you once be, take your EXPERIENCES. They're your best TEACHERS.
If you folks happened to read over, and you don't just believe what i have wrote, i can't blame you.
Thanks,
kim :)
You know what pain could be and how it may affect you and your life. How about the cliche, 'prevention is better than cure'?
How about when it's too late to prevent it?
You get advices like..
move on!
go on with your life.
he's just another random guy, you can get another one!
That guy isn't worth it.
He's easy, c'mon!
That's ok, cheer up!
You can do it!
Don't they just realize how frustrating for you to know that something hard for you wouldn't be for them? And, things they say make you feel you're the weakest link? Or, they aren't just in the right position to sought advices to?
Letter C.
Things are easier said than done.
(i won't argue on the last statement)
in cases of such (when you don't know if you'll wait or forget), you tend failing to define the meaning of PRIORITIZE; you forget about your mind, your heart, and sometimes, yourself; you cling into your ego more often than not; worse, you decide out of circumstances which you have failed to see that are apparent wouldn't work!
You suddenly are DUMB when something's wrong with your emotions, and it just oftentimes would ruin you as a person.
You're stock in despair and continously torturing yourself with a useless question, 'have i taken the right choice?'
then, when you realize it could be wrong (but you weren't sure), you change it! Worse comes to worst, you take it as a CYCLE!
So, in short, you're missing to place the DOT!
ILLOGICAL.
OUT OF CONTROL.
TERRIFYING.
REDICULOUS.
But, you fail to see 'em!
What should you do that you've failed to do in the first place?
1. UNDERSTAND YOURSELF. Reflect. Ask yourself all the why's you've got. Remember that YOU understand yourself more than any one else.
2. WEIGH. Give every small detail a shot. Write notes as what you have already decided what would be EFFECTIVE for you, and what would be NOT.
3. DECIDE AND STICK TO IT. Don't let anyone decide for you! More than anyone, YOU ARE THE MOST RESPONSIBLE PERSON FOR YOURSELF. But never depend solely on your mind, your heart or your ego -- they work best as a team, believe me. You have number 2 as a basis.
Once you have taken the decision, forget all the other choices forever. Make yourself believe that what you have would work the BEST. Do not change just that, or else you'll be back to zero.
4. COMMUNICATE THE PAIN. Cry. Find a shoulder to lean on, but don't make yourself too comfortable to the extent of being dependent to that shoulder. Say the words you've been wanted to tell that person who caused you pain. Don't restrict your capability to be HEARD and FELT!
5. GIVE IT TIME. 'time heals all wounds', it may be the least effective cliche, BUT IT WOULD STILL WORK ANYWAY. Patience would lead you to something you just didn't expect and imagine.
6. STAND FOR IT. Without this, nothing makes sense.
7. SPREAD. If it's your turn to give an advice to someone you once be, take your EXPERIENCES. They're your best TEACHERS.
If you folks happened to read over, and you don't just believe what i have wrote, i can't blame you.
Thanks,
kim :)
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